Saturday morning 7-10-10
Ted,
Your signed death certificate finally arrived yesterday. As you can imagine, I've been having a real struggle handling this one since it's been over 6 weeks since you've changed residence. Life with you was always an exciting adventure! Our headstone is nearly finished and I expect it to be set within 2 weeks.

I'm heading back home today. I came to help out where I could following your Mom's lung surgery. Surgery went well but now they've discovered cancer in the lymph nodes. Next appointment is later this month. Within the 3 weeks that I've been here 5 people have gone to the hospital in our family: Martie - possible blood clot in the leg (actually inflamed syst), Dad East, Virgil, as you called him was admitted for 6 days - pneumonia and drastic weight loss. He's back on the Prostat 64 (bad tasting protein medicine) but he's at home. Brad then had to take a turn with a bowel blockage. He spent 3 days in the hospital only to be released yesterday. Lastly, Mom Andis learned yesterday she needs a biopsy next Friday on a suspicious area. Sure doesn't seem like I've helped our family much. I wish I could talk to you so you could tell me what to do! I feel so lost.

God's people have been so wonderful! I couldn't begin to list all the unexpected blessings that have been sent to Travis, Brande and myself including the donation of sod on your grave. I pray GOD will provide the rain to keep it watered while I'm gone.

Our grandchild is continuing to grow and is preparing for entry into his next phase of life. Yesterday, they estimated his weight as 8lbs 1oz. Still 2 weeks to go. Travis keeps saying that he wants to make you proud. He doesn't realize he achieved that status a long time ago. Every time he walked into the batter's box, or came running across the football field, or took the checkered flag we were PROUD. No one had to guess which one was ours!

I miss you so much! I miss holding your hand. I miss hearing you call me Baby Girl when you wanted something and Elaine when you weren't so pleased with me. I miss you telling me how to handle things like All the kids being in this emotional wreck. We're all searching for answers. I miss you holding out your arms says, " Come here" and letting me cry until it felt better. I miss you reaching over during Communion time and holding my hand assuring me that we were making this journey together. On May 25, 2010, you moved to a new phase of life and I'm sure that you are having a great time in heaven even better that on this earth. I take comfort in knowing that you're going to return with Jesus to get me one day. I'll be waiting.
I Love You Forever and A Day!
Maranatha

One month and 13 days. . . . It's been a lifetime and a second.

The pain has been worse than anything that I have ever imagined or endured. Quite honestly, it doesn't seem to be getting any better.

Everything that I know in life started with my Aunt Marilyn and my Uncle Ted. Everything I touch, everything that I do I find rooted in something I was taught through, or because, of them.

I miss him more than anything. . . . . and wish I could express the depth of my sorrow I feel. Aunt Marilyn, Bub, Crystal. . . . I pray for each of you. . . . and know it's no easier for you.

I love you, Uncle Ted. . . . .

Marilyn,

The boys and I just heard the news about Ted. We are in such shock because Ted was so full of life. I want to thank you for everything you and Ted have done for the boys and I. Your husband was an amazing person - who really ment a lot to me and the boys. Anytime I needed help with something, Ted was always there. I feel so sad inside because I always thought I would see him again. The last time I spoke to Ted, we talked about bringing my boys down to do some fishing over the summer. I will miss him dearly! If I can do anything for you and your family, please let me know. You are in our prayers. Love, Daine, Tristin and Dawson

Dear Marilyn,I have not been blessed to exchanged time with you in a more personal way but I've had the honor of working with you from the distance. I am sure that a person like you shoul've been blessed with a wonderful husband and we need to understand that he would probably deserved to be closer to God and watch after you and your beloved ones until time comes. I hope you find peace and heel and remember, we will keep you in mind always when is time to pray,
Sincerely,
Jose & Irma Ayala

Today is 6-8-10.
That means you've been gone for two weeks. Mom and I were talking last night about how in many ways it seems like forever that you've been gone and in some aspects it seems so very quick. A drawing of your tombstone came yesterday and that seemed IMPOSSIBLE. I realize there will be "good days" and "bad days," but today was not a good day.

I miss you a great deal.

I am still trying to figure out how to name your grand-child after you.

I want to make you proud.

Dear Marilyn, you and Ted have been very special people in our lives since you arrived in Greenville six years ago. We have had many fun times together playing games and especially sharing the blessings of the Lord. Ted was always ready to help Bob with all his car repairs even to the point of driving up from GA last year with his tools to do a major repair job on our buick. He was a gifted person and had a big giving attitude. We will miss him. Marilyn our hearts hurt for your loss and pray God's grace and love will keep you through this difficult time. One day we will all be united together again with our precious Lord in heaven for all eternity. Romans 8:38-39

Our love and prayers,
Bob and Charlene

What a privilege and blessing each of us have shared to have known Ted. I will always remember what a kind and generous person he was, always eager to lend a hand. His hands were the hands of Christ. The time that our lives crossed paths at Ogilville and Beck's Grove were such good times and won't be forgotten. Logan and John were talking this weekend about the memories they have of coming to your house when they were grade school age along with other kids from the youth group. Ted was the first one to introduce them to 'paintball'. He would set up targets for them to shoot at (with a reminder not to shoot around his car - corvette?). Logan still has the paintball gun that he bought from Ted. They remember jumping/wrestling on the trampoline and playing volleyball. They also remember Ted taking them to 'Acquire the Fire'. Marilyn, I am so thankful for the Christian influence that both you and Ted had on my children. Ted was a great friend to Greg as well. Several months ago, Ted came over to the house, sat down in the kitchen and talked with Greg and I. You would have never known we've been separated by miles for several years. Certainly 'once a friend, always a friend' applied to those who knew Ted. He will be greatly missed.

You and your family are in our prayers.

Marilyn,I have always though of you as my sister. I loved Ted as if he was my brother. He was such a wonderful person his is going to be miss so much. I love you and hope you know you call call me anytime. I will keep you in my prayers as you go through this difficuult time.

Love you always,

Tony, Robbie and Brianna

Marilyn told me the other night, "Ted was no ordinary person". I told her I think he was extraordinary. He lived everyday to the fullest. He was always late getting there, but he lived it to the fullest when he got there.
In the book of Proverbs it says, "A man that has friends must show himself friendly". Ted was one of the friendliest people I have ever met. Ted befriended everyone he met. Ted never met a stranger. Ted and I did a lot together, I wish we had done more.
I am going to miss, His laugh- it made me laugh. His smile- it was contagious.
His love for the Lord- he was a witness. I'm going to miss him calling me, and when I see on the caller id that it�s him I say, Hey 2 scoops, and he says, Hundley, what are you doing. I called him 2 scoops because I learned right away about his love for ice cream.
He is going to be missed by so many. But there are many who are glad he is gone, The deer, the turkey, and the fish, for he was hard on them. He was an excellent hunter. He loved the outdoors so much.
There is a saying, that you should choose your friends wisely, because your friends are reflection of you. If I am half of his reflection I would be glad.
He had a heart of gold. I love you brother, and I miss you. But, I know I will see you in heaven.

Marilyn and family: We haven't had the pleasure of knowing Ted for a long time; but with Ted, that didn't matter. Because as soon as you met him, he made you feel like he'd known you forever. He always had something to say, some place to go, and someone to see. He is already sorely missed, but he did so much that there will always be a little something around every corner that will rekindle a memory to bring a smile to your face. Days to come will be difficult and hearts heavy and then there'll be a good thought or memory and the burden will be somewhat lessened. We will lift you up in our thoughts and prayers and bundle you in our hearts as Ted smiles down on us and continues to spread his joy. As my Daddy used to say, " There are no strangers, just friends we haven't met yet." This was most true of Ted. We truly miss him and are keeping you in our hearts and prayers. With love, Larry and Anita

Travis and family-
My heart aches for you all and you will continue to be in my prayers. You are an amazing person Trav, no doubt your dad is extremely proud of you. Keep hold of all the good he has given you and celebrate how wonderful he is. God loves you and so do I. Let me know if there is anything Mark or I can do.
Jaime

Marilyn,
You and your family will continue to be in our prayers. I pray that the grief and sadness will slowly give way to the many wonderful memories with your husband, and the assurance that he now resides in the Kingdom of Heaven and you will see him again. Please know that many of your teammates at work care about you greatly.

Marilyn,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I've given it some thought and I've believe; no, I know that Ted was the most generous person that I've ever known. I don't think that he ever thought twice when responding to someone in need. You and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers this weekend and will continue to be. May God Bless and keep you close to his most compassionate heart.

Romans 8:28
And we know that to them that love God, all things work together unto good, to such as, according to his purpose, are called to be saints.

Friends always,

Marilyn,
I cannot express the shock and sadness that was felt when I heard about Ted. I am so very sorry. Even though, over the years we all grew and went our own ways making our way through life, I often thought of you and Ted. Words will never be enough to express my deepest sympathy at this sad time. Just know you and Travis and the girls are in my thoughts and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Donita (Murr) Almony

Marilyn,
It was an honor to work with and know such a great and talented Man. Ted taught me much as an aprentice technician and was always a great friend. He will be missed by all who knew him. He was a generous and caring man who would gladly put others needs before himself...a true example of what God expects from each one of us. Ted will always be remembered by the contribution he made to our lives. Our prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.

Trent Bogard

Marilyn,
You and your family are in our prayers. May God be with you and comfort you during this time. I enjoyed meeting your brother and son and after meeting them, I know you are blessed with a lot of family support, as well as the support of the family you work with. If there is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to call.
Johnny and Judy Eubanks

Marilyn,
I am filled with sorrow for your loss. Just remember that the lord is with us in our most difficult times. May your faith carry you today and in the days ahead. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Sincerely,

Diann

Travis is an extraordinary asset to our department and our line of work. I am confident that this is in no small part due to his father. I had the pleasure of meeting Ted while working with Travis. Your family will continue to be in my prayers. MR

Marilyn,
I am filled with a great feeling of sorrow for your loss. Just remember that the lord is with us always and that he will walk with you through the most difficult times. May your faith carry and comfort you today and in the days ahead. I will continue to pray for you and your family.

Marilyn,

Please accept our condolences. I was just getting to know Ted through his project work. He was such a personable guy. You know he's in a good place now.

Ray & Linda Kaser

Marilyn,our prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Love,

Dick and Sauni ( Galilee)

Marilyn, Travis and Brande
Ted was a good man and now he is in heaven. I am sure that you all know this, but it is still very hard for the loved ones left behind.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Larry and Jackie

Marilyn,
We will be praying for you and your
family today and the days ahead.May God
surround you with his love and give you
the strength and comfort to get through
each day.
God Bless,
Jerry & Gloria

Dear Virginia and family,
I am so lucky to have had Ted as part of my family.He always had a smile and a laugh for anyone. When I saw him recently at the hospital while you were having a procedure he gave me a hug and told me he loved me. I am so grateful that God gave that last visit although brief with him.
All my love and prayers for the loss of a great son, husband, dad, brother, uncle, and cousin.

Kathy Edwards

Marylin.
you are in our thoughts and prayers. this was such a shock to us . would love to be there for you . But I have to work . as you may know I work at Sam's Clubs In Columbus . its such a lost to you and Travis .
just trust In God he will take care of you and will help you threw it .
Sorry I can't be there .
But you have my Love and prayers.
Know words can be said to comforter you .at this time .
if you come to Columbus give me a call
Love you much
Don & Joann

Marilyn,
Our church family was greatly saddened to hear of this loss.

Please know that you are loved by God, and that He will support you with His strength and peace. This my prayer for you and your family.

I'm not even sure what to say except I love you. I will mis my uncle Ted so much. I can hear his laugh and his jokes in my head as I'm writing this. I will never forget it. I always thought of him as my dad, and still always will. The one thing I regret is not being sure he knew how much he meant to me, how muchI love him, and/or how much he really taught me in life. Even the simplest things make me think of him all the time. Just yesterday I was washing my car and when rinsing it off I was starting at the top and going down, then I thought, Uncle Ted taught me that. He had so much to share and I'm glad he chose me to share some of it with.

Marilyn, I am deeply saddened for you and Travis. Ted was the light bulb of your life, everytime you talked about him you would always light up. Remember the time you and Ted drove and chaperoned a bunch of us up to the Kroger 200? It's takes special people to do something like that. I miss working with you.

Friends always,
Bob Keller

Dear Marilyn, As you have heard and will read over and over, there are no sufficient words to say how much we are hurting for you and Travis. Our prayer is that our Father above through the grace of Jesus will make some sense of all this. If I could I would be there for the service. It is devastating me that I can't. I will be praying that there will be the comforting words of the Gospel of Jesus said during the service. Love in Christ, Rob

We were so shocked and saddened to hear about Ted's passing. We are praying for you, Marilyn, and all the Wampler family, as you grieve the loss of such a dear man, who possessed a great sense of humor and a kind and gentle spirit.

Love and Prayers,

Dave and Donna Aprati

Marilyn,

I couldn't agree more Marilyn...Ted lived and absorbed life at 90 miles per hour. He was no "tire kicker," no sir! "Yes" was Ted's response to nearly everything that came his way...which lead to some adventures and misadventures. He drank deeply from the cup of life...and occasionally dribbled on his shirt. He was an easy man to love. I'm grateful I was part of his, and your, life for a brief period.

Marilyn, so so sorry to hear of Ted's passing. I only met him once, that was enough to know he was a great person. Our thoughts and prays will be with you during your time of need.

Marilyn, there are no words to express the shock and sadness that I feel in reading about your loss in the death of Ted. I lost Don on the last day of Feb.,and I know the pain of loosing someone that has been our "rock" for so many years. Just want you to know that you will be in my prayers and my heart. Ted and Gabby are both safe in the arms of Jesus.
Lots of Love
Carolyn Ruddick

Marilyn and family,

All of us at Galilee Christian Church hurt with you right now. We love you and trust in our Lord to get you through this difficult time.

What do people do when they have no hope in Jesus?

Marilyn,

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

Julie

Marilyn and Travis,

Our hearts ache over the loss of Ted. We have so many fond memories of him and the entire family. He knew no strangers and was always so eager to help those in need.
Ted looks so happy in his Hawaiian picture. I am so glad you were able to enjoy it together.
As they say in Hawaii, Aloha Nui Loa Ted. (We love you very much)

In our thoughts and prayers,

Janice and Rex

Travis,Brande,&Marylin My heart just breaks that we have lost Ted. We sure made the most of his past year with the wedding and baby news. Ted was a really good man from the time we first met I was often amazed at the way he would go out of his way to help others if they were in need.He will be missed so much by Brenda and I.
Travis, Here is a story that Brenda's dad told me at my dads funeral and I think the same applies to you. Pete was talking to dad telling him I was a pretty good carpenter, he had taught me well, but I still depended on dad for advise a lot. My dad said to Pete " The only thing I haven't taught him yet is that he can do fine on his own."
Our prayers for you and your family.
Love and God Bless, Brenda and Bob Smith

I can't imagine a world without Teddy Wampler, a man with a heart of gold. He will be missed by many. We love you Marilyn and Travis. Many prayers are with you and family.

Marilyn, so sorry to hear of Ted's passing. I only met him once, but I knew immediately he was a great person. We will keep you in our prayers.

Mark and Kaye Reynolds

Eddie and Nancy so sorry to hear of your loss.If you need anything please give us a call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


with all our love
Ron Linda and family

To the family
So sorry for your loss.

SIS,
There'e nothing I can say, To take away the pain,In time it will ease.You had a good man for a short time. But one thing for sure. You will aways have another Angel around you!Thinking of all Ted's family & friends in this difficult time.
Love you
Brian

I dont know anyone who didn't love Uncle Teddy. He was such a wonderful person! He will be missed by us all! I am praying for you all during this rough time.

Marily, My heart is breaking as I am writing this to you. I have thought of what a wonderful, GIVING person Ted Wampler was since I have heard the news. It is more than a loss for all us who were the recipients of his funloving, energetic, giving heart. I have known very few people in my life that went above giving like Ted did. We loved him and will miss him deeply. We love you too, Marilyn, and I promise you will be in our prayers every day!!!

Love,
Paul and Debbie

Marilyn, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. If your husband was anything like you he was a wonderful man. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Marilyn we are in shook at the sudden passing of Ted. Please know you are in our prayers. Ted is at home with Jesus and that should comfort you. We love you and we will forever miss Ted.

Bill and Deanie Dotson

Marilyn,
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Lisa Law

Virginia,
Thinking of you during this difficult time. Love and prayers.

Marilyn, we have such fond memories of Ted and are feeling so bad for you with the loss of Ted, who was part of YOU!!! But, Ted is praising Jesus, the one who died for him!!

With our love,

Al & Dell